Employee Diary
The Big Scam – Hend Salah’s Employee Diary

I still lay in bed at night laughing hard when I recall that one interview I had for a publishing company, which became my permanent job for four years. Thank God I resigned.
Yes, four years ago I was sitting at home, jobless, doing whatever I used to do back then at 3 p.m. Good old times, when my cell phone suddenly rang. I ran as fast as I could, tripping over everything on my way, and… well let me show you what happened exactly.
Me: Hello
Caller: Were you cooking or something?
Me: Excuse me, who is this?
Caller: My name is Waleed, I am the HR at the publishing company you applied for, so tell me, what were you doing?
Me, confused: Nothing, so what is this about Mr. Waleed?
Caller: Well, Hend, we received your CV and you have an English and business writing test tomorrow at 3. Do you know what business writing is?
Me: No
Caller: Well, Google it. You will be tested in it.
Me: Okay, Thank you. Tomorrow at 3 then.
Caller: Great, okay. I will leave you to whatever you were doing. Bye, Hend.
Me, laughing inside: Thank you, bye.
The next day I went before 3, as a usual interviewee would do, and I met “Waleed” a funny guy – as you have already witnessed in the above conversation – he broke the ice, guided me to a small room and told me to wait. Ten minutes later, a girl with papers greeted me and told me that this was the exam and I should go to her in the next office as soon as I finish.
The English test was below average – to be fair – and the business writing; well it’s writing, isn’t it? So you guess the rest.
It took me an hour and a half to finish, went to the girl in the next office as instructed and gave her the papers. She said: “You will be hearing from us within a week.”
In less than two hours, I received a call from friendly Waleed who delightfully delivered the message that I passed the test and have an interview tomorrow. To be honest, I was surprised, is this normal or what? But who am I to question the great HR system and their procedures!
I went the following day for the interview where friendly Waleed was once again present to welcome me and we had a little friendly yet awkward chat. During this chat on our way to my interview, he told me that two people will interview me, and to my amazement, he told me what they will ask me in the interview! “What is going on here? Are you people in a desperate need for employees or what?” my inner voice started questioning.
Anyway, the interview went well, they did the exact steps that Waleed told me they would do. To my great surprise – AGAIN – I didn’t even get the chance to stop a taxi when my phone rang. It was Waleed telling me I was accepted and I have a final interview with the CEO next week.
“It’s all going way too fast, is this normal? Oh, Hend, you must be awesome and they can’t handle losing such special candidate like you!” My delusional inner voice assumed.
Days later, I went for the final interview with the CEO. It was a very general interview; she seemed as if she wanted to talk and get to know me better. You know these kinds of interviews; they always leave you feeling like a big bag of air walking around.
Ah, I forgot to tell you that company was breathtaking; huge, five stories and very spacious. It looked like these people are actually doing something big here.
Of course you know the rest; I got a phone call telling me I was accepted and informing me with the offer – which was great back then – and I had a month to prepare my paperwork and become a part of this huge entity.
My first day was okay, I guess. We were a very large group of newly hired employees and we sat in a meeting room for the next 3 days. Some of the HR staff came and explained how the system works, and to be honest, it all seemed too good to be true. That is until one of them explained the salary and the entire offer. It was all a big shame, I was not told the correct payment I will get and I found out that they informed all the interviewees this misleading piece of information.
From this moment on it was all a big scam.
Hend Salah
EDITOR: Mennat-Allah Yasser Zohny
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Was it Critique,Training or Bluntly Bullying?

Artwork & Writing By: Rim Abdelhamid
At one of the call centers I worked in, since day one, the manager and the trainers who were supposed to help us learn and get adapted to the job, they kept telling me how much negative and depressing they think I am. They even went as far as calling me a DEAD person. My manager enjoyed making fun of me by imitating how he thought I used to speak or how I sound, saying that I have speech disorder -because this is “funny”- just a joke! He even tried to get others to join in. It was always the same excuse: they’re “trying to help me get better at my job!” Even though it had nothing to do with my performance and it started the first day I started work.
Let me tell you why -them trying to help me- was a lie? How this is not a critique but in fact bullying? What is the aim of bullies? What are the types of bullying in general? How do they start? And how to stop it?
What workplace bullying is…
When giving a critique one gives it based on actual facts. They could give a certain advice, or simply just tell the person what they’re doing wrong, etc… But it’s never calling them names; that’s abuse. What makes abuse turn into bullying is it not being on all employees but a specific one targeted, and over a prolonged period of time (not just one incident). The harassment behavior could be by one or more colleagues (subordinates and/or superiors), where the one being targeted is unable to defend his/herself. In that case it’s no longer a bad management issue, or a bad behavior by one individual but in fact one person being alienated; BULLIED.
How bullying is like at the workplace?
You might think it is physical? But no, bullies are smart! It cannot be psychical because it could cost them their job and even get them arrested. However, it’s a mental abuse. For example, telling you something hurtful in a way of “joking” or putting you in situations that could affect the quality of your work like unrealistic deadlines. Also, it could be things like yelling, threats or sabotage. Whatever it is, it is an action that could cause stress to the victim. And could cause them to feel trapped and it is repeated over time.
In my case, I was forced by that same manager to work overtimes and on weekends. And even without extra pay. Spending every day, and almost 12-13 hours a day, sometimes with no breaks, with no time to eat and no way of getting good sleep or the rest my body needed. And I couldn’t risk losing my job. Why though? Why would someone bully another at work? POWER AND CONTROL. The bullies in this case just want to feel in control and they do it by bringing others down. In my situation, I was the only one in my team with past experience in that field, the only one who didn’t need training so that was my manager’s and the trainers’ way to “put me in my place”. They didn’t have any real critique so they tried to gain power by verbal abuse, by overwork, by putting me down and stressing me out.
What makes victims not speak sometimes or have a hard time reporting the issue? Because of the charming personality of the bully. You’d think you can tell that the person in front of you is a bully but it’s actually hard to tell. Since bullies manipulate others with poker face. They are self-centered and in some cases sociopaths but likeable.
I was always being told it’s an “advice”, they’re “helping” me. All in the midst of me being bullied. I was made to think I deserved the way I was treated.
In other cases, bullies could come after you in a non-direct way. For example, by emailing a manager telling them you’ll meet a certain deadline when it’s impossible for you to do so, they’re not coming to you directly but instead they’re putting you in a situation where you can’t really decline, knowing you’ll be in a hard and stressful situation. They could work on making you lose your job in that same manner. So basically, they’re not monsters hunting you down literally, they’re just that guy/woman sitting next to you smiling while putting you intentionally in stressful situations. Making you feel stuck all the time.
Well, how to stop bullies?
The thing about bullies is that they test their target victim. So, if you right away push back, you’ll be ok. But if they managed to get to you, they won’t stop easily. You need to always address the situation head on. Call out the behavior and leave the situation, no matter how awkward or uncomfortable it might be for you at that specific moment. Instant action is a must. You should also document every single detail big or small. The reason why sometimes bullying incidents go undisciplined is the lack of evidence. Stick to facts, to what happened and do not allow anger or other emotions to cloud your action. Then reach out to the HR and bring the incident to their attention.
To conclude the key to end bullying is to remain calm, confident and immediately push back, by calling out the action then reporting it if it’s repeated.
If there is anything, I wish I could have done differently is not letting my emotions control me. While I didn’t get angry, but instead I felt stuck, depressed and worthless. I let them put me down and I accepted the idea that I deserve to be treated this way, this is why I never reported what happened. I should have only focused on achieving my target because that’s what evaluates the quality of my work, not what anyone thinks. I wish I could tell my old self that: “Harassment, stress and overwork do not help anyone. Teamwork, respect and positive work environment does. Always know your work duties (targets) and your rights as well.”
If anyone who’s going through the same experience is reading this, I hope you know now what to do.
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اللي بيتكلم كتير بينجح

بقلم: هبة رشدي
من بداية شغلي وأنا مش بعرف أجامل وأتكلم كتير وأبدأ أمدح في شغل وللاسف في حد استغل ده فيا واني ممكن أكون بتحرج اني اطلب حقي أو أمدح في شغلي وكان ساعات كتير بينسب المجهود ده لنفسه لدرجة اني كنت بحس اني بتظلم وأن شغلي ومجهودي مش واضح وان في ناس موجوده معايا ممكن تكون بتشتغل نص مجهودي بس بتعرف تسوق لشغلها كنت حاسة اني كدا شغلي مش هيتقدر صح فقررت اني لو أنا مش هقدر شغلي ومجهودي اكيد مفيش شخص تانى هيعمل كده
مع الوقت لقيت الناس فاهمه كويس الشخص إللي بيشتغل وعنده ضمير والشخص إللى بيعمل شو لنفسه وشغله وبس ولقيت فعلا محدش بينجح غير إللى بيعمل شغله بضمير الشخص اللي بيتكلم كتير بينجح وبيلمع لفتره بس مش طويلة. النجاح محتاج ضمير وقدرة على الشغل بجد وتقدير طبعا و جراءة في الدفاع عن حقي ومجهودي
لما بدأت ابقى مسئولة عن فريق شغال معايا قررت ان أهم حاجة بالنسبالى اني احافظ على الأشخاص دي، مجهودهم شغلهم وكمان تقديرهم لذاتهم واني هقدر الأشخاص إللي معايا، وقررت أن أي إساءة هيتعرضوا ليها كأنها إساءة شخصية ليا. كنت بحاول بكل جهدي ان التيم بتاعي يكون محمي ومتوفر ليهم القدر الكافي من الاحترام وخصوصا ان احنا بنتعامل بشكل يومي مع العملاء وفي كتير ساعات بيبقى أسلوبهم مستفز وفي الحقيقة مخسرتش أي عميل من وقت القرار ده بالعكس كنت بحس أكتر باحترامهم وتقديرهم وحتى الموظفين الموجودين كانوا بيقدروا جدا ده وممكن يكون بيحافظوا وبيقدوا المكان إللي مقدملهم القدر الكافي من الاحترام والأمان
معظم الوقت بيتصدرلنا فكرة ان الشغل مفيهوش عواطف ولا مشاعر، واني لازم أكون صارمة جدا وساعات ممكن يوصل للجحود عشان أبقى بروفيشينال. بالنسبالي الشغل عبارة عن علاقات إنسانية كتير وتقدير وحب ورحمة، وطبعا أوقات لازم نبقى صارمين في مواقف معينة. بس الأهم إن يكون في رحمة حتى في العقاب مع إللي بيغلط علشان يبقى في تقدير للكيان إللي بيشتغل فيه وفي راحة نفسية في التعامل واحترام
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سبعة عشر قصة تنمر في بيئة العمل

صحافة: محمود منسي
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Rejected from companies after passing technical exams due to body arts “tattooing”.
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“Make your success a story to tell..!!”
“when it comes to write your own story, don’t let anyone else to hold the pen..!!” 😃
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I worked in an international telecommunications company and the manager hierarchy sucked to the core.. I was the top 5 performers of the department but was told by my direct manager that I suck and that I had to reconsider my place in the company and not to put my hopes up high! On the other hand, my quality coach told me that my performance was amazing by showing me evidence that I was indeed one of the best 5. The first opportunity for being promoted to a different title came around but I did nothing because my self-esteem was crushed.
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في جامعة اشتغلت فيها ٦ شهور فقط من فرط الايجابية اللي فيها.
أحد المسئولين في الكلية اللي اشتغلت فيها تحديدا قالتلي لبسك لا يرتقي بوظيفة مدرس مساعد في الجامعة وان شكل جسمي مش حلو وغيره كلام كتير صدر منها كان بيقتلني..
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مديري استغل اني قولتله plan بتاعتي في الشغل وراح قدمها هو لنفسه، أنا عمري متعرضت لحاجة كده دي أول مرة في حياتي..

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